Why do we often feel: The bygone days to be worth remembering?



People like remembering the past as a summary of the worth cherishing events that can bring love and laughter in a person's life. Rarely do people like remembering those hurtful moments that has passed on them as they can be causers to let the bruises open and let them bleed again. When the best moments of the past are brought out in present lives, it opens a fresh stream of life into a person's life though trials and tribulations keeps haunting him each day in his daily challenges.

Feels like the present void can also be overcome by bringing in the best reminiscences of the past. Do you at times feel that you have changed for the better or the worse at your present? How do you feel you can correct yourself? The answer lies in yourself. The cure is 'YOU'. You know it best how to bring life flow in you again.

The elements of both good and bad were in oneself ever since we first opened our eyes to this world. Events both remembering and hurtful are important. Though you have turned to worse at your present, the good in you and the good events can add life to you to be the cure and the change to a better being. Events that caused hurt are rather to be taken cautiously as a lesson never to bring them back again. Its rather best to keep them buried with the past. Bringing them back will be opening a Pandora's box.

Self evaluation of many will reveal that they really have changed a lot. If they have changed for a good cause then there is no turning back. Otherwise, we have to reflect and relate to our past to identify and bring back the good in us related to those happy moments. Everything is subjected to change but always be cautious in adopting the change, else that could unleash hell into oneself.  

I'm of the personal notion that the craving for unblemished happiness in oneself leads people towards this quest to bring back the best bygone days into their lives and be like old again, pristine and without blemish.




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